[태그:] habits

  • At Night, I Want It. By Morning, I Don’t.

    Every night, there are foods I crave.

    Mostly spicy and intense ones.
    Gopchang—grilled beef intestines. Pasta.

    If I eat them, I fall asleep quickly.
    The next day, I always regret it.
    The number on the scale goes up,
    and waking up becomes harder.

    “I’ll definitely eat it tomorrow.”
    If I tell myself that and go to bed,
    at least there is no regret.

    The strange part is this:
    the next morning,
    the food still comes to mind—
    but I don’t want it anymore.
    The night before, it felt urgent.

    By morning,
    the desire is gone.

    A big betrayal of the brain.

    And when night comes again,
    it starts over.
  • Three Small Addictions

    I’ve always thought
    that once something becomes an addiction,
    it’s better to step away from it.
    Whatever it is.

    Lately, I think I might be addicted
    to three things.

    -Watching videos on my phone.
    -Caffeine.
    -Carbohydrates.

    When I wake up,
    I start playing videos
    without even thinking.
    After a meal,
    I almost automatically think about coffee.
    Even when I’m not hungry,
    carbohydrates circle around in my head.

    I told myself I should cut all three out.

    But I learned that breaking an addiction
    takes more willpower than I expected.
    Pulling something out of my mind
    when it keeps coming back
    is harder than it sounds.

    Two things seem to help.
    One is placing myself in a busy environment—
    especially when I’m around other people.
    The other is saying it out loud
    to my own brain:
    “You don’t need this right now.”

    I’m not free from them yet.
    But at least
    I’m no longer following them
    without noticing.